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Game
Understanding Game
Game in real life is different than game online. Game online is much more merciless. The good news is we are going to show you exactly how game works, what you need, and how to avoid pitfalls that will drastically reduce your results. Ultimately, we’ll uncover the truth behind elevating your social status and attractiveness.
Let’s go over the leverage, the first 3 rules in having game. Leverage is using any of the following to maximum advantage. By understanding these concepts, you’ll be able to maximize your account to building an irresistible profile.
Appearances
While it’s true that appearances aren’t the sole factor in attracting a woman, they certainly play a significant role in making a positive first impression. Here’s why appearances are important:
Initial Attraction
Physical appearance often forms the basis for initial attraction. It’s the first thing someone notices about you, and it can spark interest or intrigue. When you present yourself well, you’re more likely to catch someone’s eye and pique their curiosity.
Confidence Boost
Taking care of your appearance can boost your confidence. When you feel good about how you look, you’re more likely to exude confidence, which is an attractive quality. Confidence can be a magnet for women because it suggests you’re comfortable in your own skin and sure of yourself.
Sign of Self-Care
Putting effort into your appearance shows that you care about yourself and your well-being. This can be appealing to women because it indicates that you’re likely to extend that care and attention to them as well. It suggests that you’re responsible and take pride in yourself, which are very attractive qualities in a partner.
Non-Verbal Communication
Your appearance communicates information about you before you even say a word. It can convey aspects of your personality, lifestyle, and interests. For example, someone who dresses professionally might be perceived as organized and ambitious, while someone with a more casual style might be seen as laid-back and approachable. Being mindful of your appearance allows you to control the message you’re sending and make a positive impression.
What If I'm Not Extremely Attractive?
Very few men are born with amazing genetics. In a study data published by OKCupid, women found approximately 7% of men to be “above average” in attractiveness. This means you are not alone. Millions of men have been able to land dates without being insanely good looking.
A lot of attractiveness can be worked upon such as clothing, hair, accessories, hygiene and fitness. Follow the next tips to get the maximum results on your dating profile.
The Power of Style
Style is all about expressing yourself, but have you ever stopped to think who you are attracting or not attracting with the style you wear? Our goal isn’t to strip you away from your identity, but to present you in the best light so you can attract the most women. This will give you more options. Below are the styles that statistically work the best and women find most attractive across the world across all ages.
- Fitted Clothing – Fitted clothing exudes an air of effortless elegance. It gives the impression that you effortlessly look good without trying too hard. It creates a sleek, polished look that appears more put-together and stylish.
- Sophisticated Clothing – Dressing in a sophisticated manner immediately sets you apart and leaves a lasting impression on others. This commands respect and admiration from those around you. It conveys professionalism, intelligence, and confidence, which are qualities that women naturally gravitate towards. Whether you’re in a professional setting or socializing with friends, dressing sophisticated sets the tone for how others perceive and interact with you.
- Muted Colors – Colors play a strong psychological impact on first impressions. Muted or darker tones gives a sense of strength, mystery, and romances.
Universal Hair Appeal
What is the most popular hair style that women find most attractive? We analyzed dozens of studies and surveys to find that hair short on the sides and a little longer in the middle is the most attractive. It’s fun, clean, and professional all wrapped into one.
The most important concept to keep about hair is to keep it clean, groomed, and under control. A lot is said about you if you go out as though you just rolled out of bed. Don’t let Hollywood convince you this is cool. It does not work. It just shows you are sloppy and don’t care.
Don’t stress about things you cannot control. If you are bald or already balding, embrace that aspect about yourself. Rock the bald look. Confidence is key and will radiate beyond any hairstyle you do or don’t have. Focus on what you can control or work on and don’t sweat about what you can’t.
A Watch is Truly Timeless
Wearing a watch is attractive because it enhances your style and sophistication, demonstrates attention to detail and punctuality, serves as a conversation starter, adds depth to your personal style, exudes timeless appeal, and conveys a sense of adventure and exploration. Whether you wear a watch for practical or aesthetic reasons, it’s a versatile accessory that enhances your overall attractiveness and presence.
Note: You do not need to go out and buy a Rolex or $1,000+ watch. Most people cannot distinguish the difference. The most important aspect is to match the watch band with your outfit. Women love and appreciate this small detail and will make you stand out from the crowd.
Fitness and Hygiene
There’s a myth that you need to be a huge body builder to attract women. That is absolutely wrong. Majority of women find a lean, fit, athletic body to be the most attractive.
If you want the best results, you need to focus on your health and take care of your body. It’s a competition out there. You need to step into the gym if you want to stand out from the crowd. Being fit and healthy speaks miles about you without ever saying a word. To women it shows you can commit to something before ever reading anything about you.
Lastly, your hygiene plays a very important role. Never go out on a date without bathing, and our rule of thumb when it comes to cologne is very simple. If she can smell you from 5 feet away, you are using too much. Give her a surprise of how amazing you smell once she is very close to you. A little bit goes a long way.
Finances
The attractiveness of wealth to women can be understood through these factors:
Security and Stability: Wealth often provides a sense of security and stability, which are highly desirable qualities in a partner. Financial stability can offer peace of mind and assurance that basic needs will be met, reducing stress and uncertainty in a relationship.
Lifestyle Opportunities: Wealth opens up opportunities for a more comfortable and fulfilling lifestyle. It can afford access to luxury experiences, travel, fine dining, and other indulgences that can enhance quality of life. Women may be attracted to partners who can provide these lifestyle benefits.
Provider Instinct: Evolutionarily, women have been drawn to partners who can provide for them and their offspring. While modern society has evolved beyond traditional gender roles, the instinctual desire for a partner who can offer material security still exists to some extent.
Social Status and Prestige: Wealth often comes with social status and prestige, which can be attractive to women seeking a partner who is respected and admired in society. High social status can open doors to exclusive social circles and opportunities, adding to a partner’s appeal.
Ability to Provide for Future Family: For women who envision starting a family, wealth may be seen as an indicator of a partner’s ability to provide for their children’s future. Financial resources can contribute to a child’s education, healthcare, and overall well-being, making wealth an attractive trait in a potential partner.
Generosity and Philanthropy: While wealth itself may be attractive, how it is used can also be appealing to women. Partners who are generous with their wealth, whether through charitable giving or supporting loved ones, demonstrate compassion and empathy, which are valued qualities in a relationship.
It’s important to note that while wealth can be attractive, it is not the sole determinant of a successful or fulfilling relationship. Factors such as mutual respect, communication, shared values, and emotional connection also play crucial roles in building strong and lasting partnerships.
Do Not Make Wealth Your Entire Identity
Sharing a glimpse of your financial capabilities is a good thing, however, making your entire account identity surrounded by wealth will do two things.
- Shallow Relationships – You will attract people who are solely interested in your financial status rather than who you are as a person. This can lead to superficial relationships based on materialistic values rather than genuine connection and compatibility.
- Target for Scams – By broadcasting to the world your wealth invites people who are willing to exploit it. Don’t be surprised if you get a lot more scams with women asking you to send them money or buy a house in a foreign land.
We are not here to tell you how to approach your relationships. If you are someone who is just wanting to have fun then broadcasting wealth will get you results. Just be warned of the consequences of doing so, and the costs it will accumulate for you.
Confidence
There have been many situations where a guy who is less attractive or doesn’t have as much money still somehow manages to get the girl. Out of all 3 leverages, confidence is the strongest driving factor behind the men who are successful with their dating journey. Confidence reveals competence and is the number 1 attractive thing women find in men.
Confidence vs Arrogance (False Confidence)
Contrary to belief. Confidence isn’t something you can fake. Most men fail in being truly confident because they spend their time trying to be what confidence looks like on TV.
Confidence is fueled by self worth through practice and understanding. It is not through external validation.
Men who spend their time belittling others do so to seek the constant need to feel better than everyone else. Don’t be that kind of guy.
Weak Guys Finish Last
You have probably heard the term “Nice guys finish last.” We are here to tell you that is not true. “Weak” guys finish last. Sometimes it takes tremendous strength to be kind and respectful when we don’t want to be.
Every woman ultimately wants a man who is kind to them and to others. However, women do not respect a man who they can walk all over.
How do we counter this?
The answer is boundaries. When you are mistreated or disrespected you need to communicate that you won’t tolerate that kind of behavior. When she is taking advantage or abusing your time, you need to voice that your time is valuable. Trust us, this is very powerful and demonstrates to women that you are in charge of your life. You are the captain of your ship.
What if I Struggle With Confidence?
Building confidence is a process that takes time and effort, but it’s definitely achievable. Here are some actionable things you can do right now to improve.
Identify your Strengths: Make a list of your skills, talents, and achievements. Focusing on what you excel at can boost your confidence and remind you of your capabilities. Acknowledge when you aren’t confident about a subject but avoid staying on these subjects too long. Constantly apologizing and revealing your lack of confidence is unattractive and will cause women to dismiss you.
Set Realistic Goals: Break down your larger goals into smaller, manageable tasks. Achieving these smaller goals will give you a sense of accomplishment and increase your confidence gradually.
Practice Self-care: Taking care of your physical and mental health can greatly impact your confidence. Make time each day to do something that takes care of your well being.
Encouraging Self-talk: Pay attention to your inner dialogue and challenge negative thoughts. Replace self-doubt with positive affirmations and reminders of your past successes.
Improve Your Posture: Adopting a confident posture can actually make you feel more confident. Imagine a string that runs from the top of your head and you want to pull it upright. Constant reminder of this will slowly remove the slouch many people have that visually demonstrates low confidence.
- Replace Nervousness with Excitement: This is strategy that has worked for many men and is used in professional athletes to calm nervousness. Nerves are simply energy and the way you perceive that energy will determine how you use it. Remind yourself when you are nervous that it is actually because you are excited. Repeat this to yourself and transform that feeling into a positive emotion.
Dress the Part: Wear clothes that make you feel good about yourself. Dressing well can boost your confidence and make you feel more self-assured in social situations.
Surround Yourself with Supportive People: Step away from people who don’t believe in you and bring toxicity into your life. Surround yourself with friends, family, and mentors who care and believe in you. Find people who exude an energy of productivity and positivity.
Conclusion
The tree leverages of appearances, finances, and confidence is the foundation of attraction. Work on improving the quality and standards of your appearances, grow your income, and build your confidence. Having these powerful tools at your disposal opens up a whole new door of opportunities and success in dating. Don’t worry you can still have success without having all three. You at least need 1 and work on the others to improve your odds. Now let’s take what we learned and make an irresistible account!